Shivangi Sinha
Skylar Neese’s parents, Dave and Mary Neese, remain perplexed by the circumstances surrounding their daughter’s death. Their initial shock came when they discovered she was missing from her room and began searching for her. The revelation that Skylar’s friends, Rachel Shoaf and Shelia Eddy, were responsible for her murder only deepened their confusion, leaving them unable to comprehend the motive behind the crime. In NBC’s ‘Dateline: Something Wicked’ as well as Hulu’s ‘Friends Like These: The Murder of Skylar Neese,’ they explain how they struggled to find answers and continue to mourn the loss of their daughter.
Mary and Dave Neese Left No Stones Unturned in Search of Their Daughter
Mary and Dave Neese welcomed their daughter, Skylar Neese, into their lives on February 10, 1996, marking a moment that forever altered their existence. Skylar embodied the epitome of an ideal child, excelling in her studies with commendable grades, while also possessing a loving, respectful, and remarkably humorous personality. Dave fondly reminisced about Skylar’s playful nature, often engaging in pranks that brought laughter and joy to their household.
Skylar consistently proved herself to be a source of comfort and joy for her parents, Mary and Dave. During Mary’s work hours, Dave cherished their special father-daughter moments, often spending time together, particularly bonding over bowling outings. However, on the morning of July 6, 2012, their routine was disrupted when Skylar was nowhere to be found in her room, and they noticed her bedroom window was unlocked. Initially attributing her absence to a late return from a night out, their concern escalated when Skylar failed to show up for work.
Despite their immediate efforts to report Skylar missing, law enforcement waited 48 hours before issuing an AMBER alert. Undeterred, Mary and Dave took proactive measures, distributing missing-person flyers and sharing news of Skylar’s disappearance across various platforms. Their relentless pursuit for answers finally yielded results on January 3, 2013, when one of Skylar’s best friends, Rachel Shoaf, confessed to her murder. Shoaf also implicated the third person in their friendship trio, Shelia Eddy, revealing that they had conspired to kill her after initially promising to take her to a party. The motive behind the crime – they “didn’t want to be friends with her anymore” – left Mary and Dave bewildered, struggling to comprehend the senselessness of such a betrayal from individuals Skylar considered friends.
Mary and Dave Neese Are Trying to Move Forward While Keeping Their Daughter’s Memories Alive in Their Hearts
Following Rachel Shoaf’s admission of guilt, Mary and Dave experienced a measure of relief. That’s especially because Shoaf also led officials to Skylar’s remains in Wayne Township, Pennsylvania, resulting in them finally being able to bury their daughter with the respect she deserved. Shoaf later expressed remorse and sought forgiveness from the Neese family. However, during Shelia’s court hearings, her lack of remorse and dismissive attitude deeply hurt Skylar’s parents. Eddy asserted that while her actions may have been wrong, she did not view herself as a bad person. Mary and Dave perceived this response as indicative of Eddy’s cold-hearted nature and lack of empathy. In the years since Skylar’s death, her parents have been actively engaged in sharing Skylar’s story with various audiences, particularly in schools and prisons, as part of their ongoing efforts to honor her memory and advocate for justice.
Mary and Dave also rallied and pushed for the passage of Skylar’s Law in West Virginia, which requires an AMBER alert to be issued immediately whenever a child goes missing. Attending every court date and now parole hearings related to Skylar’s case, they tirelessly advocate to prevent her killers from ever walking free. Before Rachel’s parole hearings, Dave emphasized his opposition to her release, asserting that his daughter was not granted a second chance at life and therefore Shoaf should not be granted one either. She has since been denied early release twice, and she, as well as Eddy, will now become eligible for it in 2028.
Dave has also expressed his gratitude for the individuals who have transformed the site where Skylar’s remains were discovered into a memorial honoring her memory. He even acknowledged the support of those who signed the petition advocating to keep Rachel Shoaf in prison. HE seizes every opportunity to share Skylar’s story, including his participation in the popular podcast ‘Three’ hosted by Justine Harman and Holly Millea in March 2024. Reflecting on his journey, he revealed that he harbored intense anger for approximately four years following Skylar’s death but has since begun to temper it and adopt a different approach.
Dave is presently employed at Menards, a home improvement company, and resides in Mount Morris, Pennsylvania, alongside the love of his life and Skylar’s mother, Mary. He has revealed that Skylar’s death has deeply impacted numerous members of their family, and Mary, in particular, has experienced various health issues. According to his accounts, she continues to struggle with her well-being. The weight of losing their daughter continues to weigh heavily on them both, but they are determined to keep her memory alive and keep her killers behind bars.
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