Is The Invite Based on a True Story?

Helmed by Olivia Wilde, ‘The Invite‘ centers on two couples who seem to have drastically different relationships. Joe and Angela’s marriage has been a downward spiral for quite some time, and the decision to invite their neighbors doesn’t seem to be helping. Hawk and Pina, the neighbors in question, believe in being sexually adventurous, and the subtle frictions between these two couples soon begin to manifest in unusual ways. When the four of them sit down for dinner, the conversation gets out of control in no time. As the night progresses, things only get weirder and more chaotic, and the characters’ deepest insecurities come to the forefront. In capturing this four-way dynamic over the course of a single night, the dark dramedy movie taps into aspects of relationships that often go unnoticed, be it by accident or by choice.

The Invite is an Adaptation That Traces Back to a Real-Life Anecdote

While ‘The Invite’ comes from a lineage of adaptations, it is ultimately inspired by a real-life incident. Most directly, the Olivia Wilde directorial is a remake of the Spanish film ‘Sentimental,’ or ‘The People Upstairs,’ which itself is an adaptation of the stage play ‘Los Vecinos De Arriba,’ penned by Cesc Gay. The plot for the original play grew out of one particular incident in Gay’s life, that of listening to his neighbors’ moans. Gay understood the sounds as those of his neighbors having sex, and as he began hearing the moans more frequently, the idea of creating a play around this experience took hold in his mind. Directing theatre had long interested Gay, but he recalled feeling insecure about adapting an existing story. However, with an original narrative, he felt confident not only in helming the play but also in writing the script for its Spanish film adaptation.

Apart from being a fine work of comedy, Gay’s work and its subsequent adaptations are also deeply introspective in nature. When Gay first heard the sounds coming from his neighbors’ apartment, he recalled wondering about his own sex life and why it was different from theirs. ‘Los Vecinos De Arriba’ serves as his way of pouring out those feelings in the form of fiction. When writing the script, he sought references from American comedies of the 40s and 50s, which are often acclaimed for mastering the template of locked-door humor. Later, when adapting his play to the screen, he also drew stylistic inspiration from the Roman Polanski film ‘Carnage,’ as well as Mike Nichols’ ‘Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf?,’ both of which are adaptations of classic plays.

For Olivia Wilde, adapting Gay’s work into ‘The Invite’ began with a question. Both she and actor Edward Norton had seen ‘Sentimental’ and enjoyed it, but it was only after Wilde learned that the story had been adapted and reinterpreted in several countries, such as Korea, Italy, and Poland, that she began wondering about what makes it so universal in the first place. “What is so true about this story that it could be interpreted in so many different languages?” the actor recalled thinking in a conversation with the National Board of Review, before arriving at a conclusion, “I think that truth is that relationships are really difficult in every language.” In the same vein, writers Rashida Jones and Will McCormack bring the concept to life in a fresh fashion, all the while preserving its key philosophical questions.

The Invite Develops Its Premise Into a Critique of the American Dream

While creating ‘The Invite,’ the crew also worked with acclaimed psychotherapist Esther Perel as a consultant, and many of Perel’s theories find their voice in how the story unfolds. The main idea that she shared with the writing team, as mentioned in The New York Times, was not to “think about sexuality as something that people do, think about sexuality as a place where people go.” To that end, the movie has a well-developed perspective on the interplay between familiarity, love, and sexuality, and it finds some of its most powerful messages by examining what is called “bed death” through the lens of the American dream.

“It’s that American sense of duty: I have begun this marriage, I will complete it, I will muscle through,” Olivia Wilde noted, expanding on the connection in an interview with The Guardian. “The puritanical roots of our culture mean it’s not only shameful to value pleasure, but also to admit defeat,” she added. Much like Cesc Gay, her directing style in this film draws inspiration from Mike Nichols as well as Woody Allen. There is also a fair bit of improvisation, all of which serves to create a work that builds on the Spanish play and its film adaptation while creating its own fresh interpretation of the same.

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