Hosted by Joelle “JoJo” Fletcher and Jordan Rodgers, USA Network’s ‘The Big D’ is a dating reality show unlike any other. The series primarily follows various pairs of participants who were once married but have since divorced. Reuniting in this social experiment, the cast members can either rekindle old flames or explore new love sparks. The recently released debut season of the show certainly left the public highly entertained, with many people highly curious about just what their favorites are up to these days. If this is a dilemma that you share, then worry not because we have your back!
Alexis Nicole and Devon Wright Are Pursuing Separate Paths
We are starting with Alexis Nicole and Devon Wright, who not only claimed the titles of victors but also bagged the cash prize of $50,000. However, it seems like their second try at marriage did not pan out following their time on the show. “When I talk about this experience, it’s so crazy being in Costa Rica for ten weeks, and you’re away from all your responsibilities, away from your job, away from family and friends, anyone other than just working on yourself,” Alexis told USA Network.
“I say that just to say, when we got home, we ended up getting a place together, but I work in Atlanta, and we got a place in Charleston, and having to drive back and forth and stuff like that, and we didn’t have Dr. Jada [Jackson] there anymore… So it was more like real-life stuff, pressures that were put on us,” Alexis added. Despite their separation, the two seem content in their lives. As of writing, Devon divides his time between Charleston, North Carolina, and Los Angeles, California, working as a model alongside Marilyn’s Agency. On the other hand, Alexis lives in Atlanta, Georgia, and is active in the world of technology and recruiting.
Casey Costa and Brooks Peters Are Exploring New Avenues Separately
Let’s talk about Casey Costa and Brooks Peters, who do not seem to have rekindled their romance after coming on the show. That said, the former did form a close connection with another contestant named Ben though that also did not pan out, as the two did not think that their responsibilities in the real world would allow them to pursue this particular relationship to the fullest.
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As for Brooks, the reality TV star seems to have moved on from his feelings for Casey and apparently is in a happy relationship. He has a business of his own called High Altitude Lawn Care and Hauling, based in South Lake Tahoe, California. With over a million followers on TikTok and an Instagram following of well over 86K, Casey is also thriving as a social media content creator.
Ariel Lyndsey and Blair Delgado Are Thriving Individually
Up next, we have Ariel Lyndsey and Blair Delgado, who had previously been married for around four and a half years before getting divorced. Based in Clearwater, Florida, it does not seem like the two are together. That said, Ariel has made impressive strides in her career as a dancer and content creator. Her TikTok account has a following of over one and a half million, while her Instagram account boasts more than 44K admirers. On the other hand, Florida resident Blair works as a Senior Enterprise Customer Success Manager for KnowBe4.
Dede Lewis and Thakur Wint Are Co-Parenting and Growing
Dede Lewis and Thakur Wint seem to be doing well despite going on separate paths. While the former has not shared much about her romantic life since her appearance on the USA Network show, her ex-husband seems genuinely happy with Meleah Clinton. Nevertheless, Dede and Thakur met as single parents of their sons Kieren and Kylan and continue to co-parent both boys even after their legal separation.
Presently, Thakur is a freelance Talent Acquisition Consultant based in Secaucus, New Jersey. As for Dede, she is a Program Manager for ApotheCom, an Inizio Company, and she splits her time between New York City, the Dallas-Fort Worth Metropolitan Area, and South Florida.
Ally Lee and David Mims Are Focusing on New Ventures
When they appeared in ‘The Big D,’ Ally Lee and David Mims certainly garnered much attention, primarily due to the latter’s status as a former football player, having been affiliated with teams like Kansas City Chiefs and Baltimore Ravens. Presently, he remains active in the field of football, with his recent appearance in ‘Fantasy Football,’ a Paramount+ movie.
On the other hand, Ally is the proud owner of The Melted Chocolate, a bakery based in Fresco, Texas. Despite their separation, the two seem to be on amicable terms and hold immense love for their kids, including their daughter Ari. Additionally, Ally has a dog whom she is pretty fond of.
Gillian Messina and David Novello Are Building Separate Futures
The door on the relationship for former high school sweethearts Gillian Messina and David Novello seems closed. The former now appears to be in a happy relationship with Mike Schiavone, whom she has known at least since December 2021. The couple welcomed their daughter Lily Stella into this world on February 2, 2023.
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Presently living in Wilmington, North Carolina, Gillian is an active figure in the life of her partner’s son, Rowan. Regarding her professional life, she works under the banner of Gillian’s Makeup Artistry and seems to be thriving as an entrepreneur and makeup expert. On the other hand, David seemingly prefers to keep the details of his life under wraps though we know he is presently based in San Diego, California.
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